Monday, October 12, 2009
Attention!
Things happened for a or many reasons. We may not know why it happened now. But in time to come, we will. All we need is the patience and high level of tolerance. And a little touch of faith here and there.I watched Forgetting Sarah Marshall just now. In which , the couple broke up bitterly even if they're into their fifth year together. Peter was extremely bitter and sad. He decided to hit out to Hawaii; a place where his ex have always wanted to go. Truth be told, they met again. To reconnect you think ? Nope. In Hawaii was where Peter finally realize, that life goes on even without his significant other of five years. In fact that's where his new life begins. He began to surf and pick up dating again. That's when he met the love of his life ; Rachel. And things fall into places; he has never been any happier than he was before. Life's beginning to change for him. For he finally knows after every heart breaks, it's one step closer to our true significant other.
If Sarah hadnt broken up with Peter, he wouldnt have travelled to Hawaii. And if he hadnt travelled to Hawaii he won't meet Rachel and he wont be the happiest man alive. So you see, there will always be a reason in everything that had happened and will be happening.
I notice, my surrondings are changing. People falling in and out of love. Stress out with school ; some even have thoughts of quitting school totally. Independent students trying their very busy to make ends meet due to financial issues back at home. Students facing their exams in a month time. I don't know what Allah has install for me but HE has given me all of these opportunities to be able to see the down fall of people's life and their happier successful moments. But I know what HE had let me see , is something that I can hold on to and be a useful lesson for the tiny part of my life.
So this is the lesson that I've learnt ; things really do happen for a or many reasons.
You've broken up with your beau. Life doesnt stop there. I know it's hard. It's insane. It's driving you nuts. It's killing and eating you up inside. But take it from me, experiences that doesnt kills you , it'll only make you a stronger better person.
You'll asked yourself, what did I do ? Was it my ego ? Or was it his ego ? I'm a control freak or am I not ? What is it that went wrong ? Everything's good before but why this happen ? The more you keep asking the more depressed you'll be. Quit asking for awhile. Take a step back and slowly ( and surely ) pick up your bits of pieces of life back. 'Cause life moves even if you want it to stop. Life doesnt stop for no man. Do you want to waste a day of your life to someone who has broken your heart when you can actually learn from it and find yourself in someone's arm - who is clearly way better then the previous beau of yours.
It's a tough path towards recovery, no doubt. I've experienced it too many a times. Be it first hand or girlfriends' experiences. Both ways, I feel the pain. But we'll get better, no doubt. All you need is to get your head up, pick up your mistakes and learn from it. If you dont learn from it, you'll find yourself stuck on the same damn boat.
Fall. Rise. Learn. Take risks.Live. Grow. And all over again.
One heart breaks leads to the next bittersweet journey. Dont ever give up 'cause only losers do. So to the girl that experience this heart breaking journey. Hold your head high up, slowly learn and realise your mistake and slowly move on. You'll grow and mature, surely. All you need is patience and a little touch of faith. You'll be fine my dear girl you'll be just fine.
Years ahead, you'll look back and realise that it was a good call that you took risk with the man you used to be with. 'Cause now, you're a better person in many different aspect and who knows, you're now in the arms of a man that truely deserves you just the way you are. Who respects you. Who loves you. Who cherish you. Who treasures you. Who apperciates you. So sweet darling, dont quit. Keep moving. Just remember, it happened for many reasons. It takes time for you to find out what are those reasons and how it leads you to be a better person inside and out.
For those who are in love, kudos! A friend once told me, dont rush or you wont be able to enjoy the pleasure of the relationship has got to offer. A good piece of mental note that is. Keep on falling in love with the same person all over again. Do go back down to memory lane once in a while and asked each other how it was like when you both fell in love with each other for the very first time. Apperciate the man/woman in your life 'cause you might never know when's their last breath.
On another note!
For those who are stressed out due to school and exams ( I'm feeling you! It was only the first day and I already have projects!) , hold on! This torture of school and nightmare of exams are there for the better of our future. Let's give our best in every modules that we are taking. Whenever you feel like giving up on your school or revision for exams, just keep chanting bout the aims and goals you've in life. And imagine how good you'll feel when you've finally get what you want all your life after months and months of studying your ass off. Just remember, short term sacrifice , long term gain!! My good lucks are with all of you!
More soon! ;)
